In a desperate attempt save something we treasure, we tend to go in search for a memory that define our relationship. With an instant we go back to the days when we first started out. Remembering the epic memory that holds our picture in our hand. Reminding us the reason why we fell in love in the first place, like the way you smile, the way you taste, the way your tender skin brushed against mine or the way we say i love you. Then we realized how far we've come and how far we've changed and all those sweet memories fly away like pixie dust. We ask ourselves, where is that person I first fell in love with? Holding on to a memory just isn't enough sometimes. Its hard to wake up in the morning much less go to bed at night thinking that the relationship we built will come to an end any time soon, just because we realize we've changed. Why don't we take the person we've become and start anew, start a new memory. I'm not asking for us to replace the first ever memory, I'm just saying that we should make the best of what we've got now or should I say what we've become. Its hard seeing the person we love walk away when our heart is still hoping that things might get better, though we know that things are never going to be the same again. The things we do for love and for the ones we love. Or so they say it, its better to have love and lost than to never have love at all.