August 5, 2011 @ 10:11 AM
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This post is going to be different from what I would usually talk about here. But because I feel the need to put these thoughts or should I say opinions of mine into words.
This post is going to be different from what I would usually talk about here. But because I feel the need to put these thoughts or should I say opinions of mine into words.
I have always have a weak spot for elderly people working as cleaners for a living, I cannot look them in the eye even though some of them want to work besides others who have to. I cannot see the sight a small kid digging out coins from his wallet to take the bus or buy a drink, I cannot stand the sight of people having to do hard manual labor for a living. It makes me feel like we are the ones putting them at the bottom of the pack. It also makes me realize how blessed we are to be able to live fairly well.
This morning, I saw an elderly man in a cleaner's uniform, digging out trash from the rubbish bin of what perhaps it was his job to do that. When I had to walk pass him, I can't help but to bow my head partially out of embarrassment. I felt embarrassed that we get so self-absorbed we forget to thank those who have been painstakingly picking up after us. I pity them even though some of them would not what sympathy. I can't help it.
So it brings me to this opinion or rather puzzling question. Why do we need to have elderly people as cleaners? Why do we need someone who we should have basic respect for, pick up after us? Aren't we able enough to do it on our own. While we climb up to on our ladder to success, do we really have to forget or step on those who might have been the foundations of it all. Have our heads grown so big that we have to shun on them? Yes, not all elderly people are hard up on life, some are enjoying their retirement and some are very well supported by their family that sometimes they too becomes big headed. I am talking here about the idea of making them do work that we could do. I mean cleaners in general, why do we look down on that job? It is as good as any other job right? It may not pay well but someone has to do it. We don't look down on contractors, we don't look down on laborers so why do we look down on cleaners? Imagine if we don't have cleaners here, will you pick up after yourselves?
It's not only cleaners, it's people in general. Or should I say blue collar workers? Look anywhere around Singapore and you wouldn't miss it even if you try to see how people treat blue collar workers. How high they raise the nose thinking wealth gives them the ability to be inconsiderate.
It's not only cleaners, it's people in general. Or should I say blue collar workers? Look anywhere around Singapore and you wouldn't miss it even if you try to see how people treat blue collar workers. How high they raise the nose thinking wealth gives them the ability to be inconsiderate.
Another thing, It's no surprise, that we live in a country of self-absorbed beings who only mind about themselves and not the surrounding. Yesterday I saw a Chinese lady walking in front of me who blatantly puts her newspaper on the parapet while walking as if it was a normal thing to do. That's littering. And who will do that job to pick up after that lady? Right. Then I witnessed an elderly couple working as newspaper deliverers, stop at the crowded bus stop, again blatantly moving safety cones away from its position, did their work and drove off. So tell me, are we so oblivious to our surroundings that it is becoming a characteristics to be proud of?
I could show you stats right now of how most Singaporeans are the epitome of 'big talk no action'. I could give them a survey and ask them questions on their definition of considerate behavior. I'm certain that 75% of them would opt for textbook answers but how many of truly would walk the talk? We are beings who are afraid to make mistakes, afraid to be embarrassed but we don't know that perhaps others are embarrassed for us.
I could show you stats right now of how most Singaporeans are the epitome of 'big talk no action'. I could give them a survey and ask them questions on their definition of considerate behavior. I'm certain that 75% of them would opt for textbook answers but how many of truly would walk the talk? We are beings who are afraid to make mistakes, afraid to be embarrassed but we don't know that perhaps others are embarrassed for us.
Sigh, what a world. Okay end of rant.
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Moral Injection
12:11 AM
Sorry for the lack of update or perhaps the late updates. I am either too caught up with so many other things or I just procrastinate till I lost all sense of inspiration. So let's just get to it shall we, cause' I don't even know if anyone ever comes here anymore anyway. But hey it seems like I'm not losing anything right?
Let's talk cheer. As of today, I have to admit that my fear has finally gotten the better of me. I have missed two training sessions because of my forever failing immune system and coming back today makes me feel scared. Everything and everyone is moving fast, working very hard to make it to the tryouts and overall making it to the national team. Missing training is making me feel like I am being left behind and it's hard for me because I love cheer and it sucks to feel like you are not working hard enough. It makes me doubt the ability I have in me. It's killing my moral and infecting my thoughts of ever making it to the national team. I am wondering if I will be good enough, will cut it? Will all these be worth the while?
Yes, no pain no gain. Today was a bit harsh, everyone is trying to push to our limits. Today, I saw tears, perhaps. And I know what it's like to be working hard and not hitting your target. I know how frustrating it is to fail especially in cheer. It sucks because the frustration can either make you or break you. They always say all the blood sweat and tears will be worth it in the end. I really hope so.
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