two cents worth
April 4, 2012 @ 12:50 AM
I'm not one who would question someone's decision unless I see a need to or unless I see how it is affecting the people who are involved in it. I have always been a firm believer how every decision you make is a choice and if it is a mistake, it would because of the choice you made.
As much as I try not to get involve in the situation, I can't help to feel the pain everyone else is facing because of this decision you make. It pains me to see how everyone else bravely shrugs everything off and try to respect your decision, how they try to hide they disagreement of your decision and how they just want you to be happy. What makes it worst is the fact that I could not do a thing about it to ease that heavy feeling. Now it pains me even more to see everyone else especially to one important person, dragging their feet but still doing everything above and beyond just to make you have at least a decent wedding.
What hurts me the most is that, they'd do anything and I mean anything just to show you that they agree to disagree with you, just to show you they support you. And the least that you could have done is be here, for her, the one person whose heart is possibly breaking at every single choice you made amounting to this.
I just think that getting married is a huge deal and perhaps you have your reasons that I don't know and understand but what I do understand is the fact that you could have done a little more to show how much this means to you. If she is going to marry you, she is marrying into the family as well and I think it is only fair that she makes the effort to get to know the family not just meet once and then decided it's time to get married. If you can spend so much time being on her side why couldn't she put in just a little effort to visit us, to visit the one person who is suppose to matter the most right now. Imagine how would she feels meeting her for the second time and it is at your wedding? Imagine how heart breaking it would be for her? If I could feel this much pain for her, why couldn't you?
Like I said, these are all a matter of choices and at the end of the day, this is what you chose. I am in no position to question your decision, consider these my two cents worth.
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March 15, 2012 @ 1:26 PM
Whether it's taking each other for granted or people changing over time, the bottom line is, someone stops trying. The feelings aren't as strong as before. - Strangers, again.
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Seventh
February 3, 2012 @ 12:07 AM
They say the seventh year is the most testing year of all. you meet with all sorts of obstacles that will test if your relationship could withstand it all. They say you need to put in an extra an amount of effort to survive.
As supertitious as a person that I am, I don't believe that just because its the seventh year, I need to put in an extra effort to still have my relationship. I believe that every step is an effort. You don't just stop trying just because things are easy. There will always be an instance when things will seem a little hard but its just how we make our way around it.
I say, every year, no every minute is a test. Every step we take is a test and an effort.
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Seventh year. At times, I still get a little winded just being with you. Sometimes, seven years still feels like it was just yesterday. I relish at every embrace, I get butterflies in my stomach and I simply love holding your hand.
It amazes me still how I still find you amzing, such an astoniching and interesting person. I love how you would always have a vision for what you want and how you are driven to get it. I may never say it but you are truly a wonderful person.
These past few years with have been wonderful, despite the adversities we faced and would faced, despite the uncertainties that we need to overcome. I might get on your nerves a lot, well you get on mine sometimes too so I guess we might be even haha but anyway I love you for whoever you are.
You are the best thing that has ever happened to me, an angel indeed. You have played a big part in shaping who I am today and for that I am grateful. I have loved you even more everyday and I hope you feel the same for me.
This might be a load of cliche but I don't care because at the end of the day, its going to be you and me.
Forever and Always.
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Mind Over Body
January 5, 2012 @ 11:50 PM
Sometimes I feel like I am not making any sense at all as a person, that I am too much of a paradox that it is ruining who I am. I am such a horrendous contradict so much so that I keep losing track of what I want and sometimes who I am. My mind is never constant filled with mood swings acting as quick as a snap.
I feel like I have this annoying alter ego in my head that drives me insane from time to time. It gets so negative and so convincing that I will eventually end up from where I first began or sometimes to even a place I never imagined going. I'll get this rush of thoughts that sometimes send shivers down my spine and I have conversations of so many things in my head. I'm an over-thinker and an over-analyser, that is the trait I like the least about myself.
I feel really useless most of the time and it can get really overwhelming up there. Its a dark place I can't seem to stop visiting. I don't know if it is just me, am I the only one who is like this. It gets exhausting but the more tired I get, the more it seems to be on overdrive. Sigh.
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Because i love you to death
December 9, 2011 @ 12:56 AM
"cause you know that i'll always be there
maybe that's why you don't care
so just take it all and watch how i fall
always thinking you'll catch me
you are killing me slowly
i keep holding my breath
cause i love you to death
i love you to death"
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Uneven
November 28, 2011 @ 12:06 AM
Just when you thought you know me well, you'd realize you had no idea.
Not even a single clue.
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Choices
November 11, 2011 @ 12:47 AM
Life is full of choices. In fact choices are a part of everything we do or encounter in our lives. Its there with every step we make. Its safe to say that we have all been put in a spot of choices. We choose between heart or brain, fight or flight, we even have to choose what to have for lunch. Thus, and so much more. I personally believe that choices are the worst thing that life can ever offer.
I knew that this day would come. Where I would have to face making a choice between love and logic. I was just waiting on time. I have been having a hard time finding balance lately and being in overdrive almost every single day is taking a toll on me. I am not complaining because of the choices I made, I just needed someone to hear me out. I needed someone to just lend me a listening ear. I don't think I'm asking for much. It gets so frustrating having to deal with all these struggles on my own. I thought, even if no one else is willing to hear me out, you of all people would stick by me no matter what. I guess I'm wrong and I'm sorry for ever putting you in that position. Who am I, right? What rights do I have?
I know H. I know that he knows me well enough. He knows what I love and what I'd do for it. He knows I have big dreams, he knows that I can only cope with so much. He knows me better than me. He knows when to stop me when I don't. He knows when I have had enough and how much more can I take. He knows that I without a doubt, rather put others before me. So he knows better than to have me choose between the things/person I love. No, he is not asking me to choose him between cheer. He asked me to choose me between cheer. H thinks that cheer has put me in so much overdrive and it is taking too much toll on me. I know that he wouldn't even come to that decision unless he have to.
But here's the thing that breaking my heart. I love cheer. I have a huge passion about it. But there is also a saying that goes, 'Just because you want it, doesn't mean you can have it.' I am really torn because up till right now I have been putting this matter off because I simply do not want to face it. But now, I have to. I was asked to make a decision between love and rational.
I have been going back and forth trying to figure out if I am really cut out for this. I mean I have put in so much effort but I don't see myself reaping anything at all. Its frustrating because I don't want to give up on it yet but every single time, I lose a little bit more inside. I lose the drive and the motivation. I don't want anything to go to waste so I am hoping, really hoping that this is just a phase. I need to find a way to figure out this balance, fast. I have a lot to prove. To everyone but most importantly myself. I have no room to fail but it feels like I am failing with every step.
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