C for Comfort
June 28, 2011 @ 9:56 PM
Here's the thing about comfort, it makes you feel safe. It makes you feel like you are a nice place but the down side is, we tend to want to stay there, at comfort. Take sleeping for an example. When we go to bed, we tend to toss and turn until we find this comfortable spot and finally fall asleep. And when we reach the point of deep serenity, that's when the we finally stops all the hard work. Then when morning comes, we all have a hard time getting out from bed, away from that spot of comfort.
Just like getting too comfortable, when we get too comfortable with something or someone, we just stop thinking that we have reached the destination. There's a reason why I never like it if someone gets too comfortable in a relationship. There's a reason why I always seem like I am on the edge every single time, why I am a tad too dramatic and why I usually over-think. Getting too comfortable with someone can do a lot of damage. We sometimes cross the line without even realizing it. We stop trying to hold everything together even when everything seems to be in place. Most importantly, we tend to takes things for granted. I've seen, no, I've psychologically felt every inch of pain of being taken for granted just because someone think comfort was the destination.
Just because we are comfortable with each other doesn't me we stop all the initiatives. What happens to all the times when you try, the times you make an effort to take things onto another level and the times you want nothing but the best for someone? Are they meant to be left behind as memories? So what happens next when we all gets comfortable and stops trying?
Comfort may be a good thing, but I just wish some people would not take it for granted. Take it like a pit stop. An area for rest and when we get back up after a quencher. Just like sleeping, we get back up after a few hours of rest and we go on with what the day has for us, what we have to fight for today.
xoxo ♥
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